Network: Self Review
- personal995
- May 29, 2024
- 4 min read
Updated: Jan 14
Introduction
Richard Feynman, the great physicist, once said, “The first principle is that you must not fool yourself — and you are the easiest person to fool.”
We need to check in with ourselves and keep ourselves honest. We all stray from our Values, Goals and The Path. That is normal, that is okay. What we do when we realise we have strayed is what matters.
The Socratic method is a form of cooperative, argumentative dialogue to stimulate critical thinking and illuminate ideas. It is named after the classical Greek philosopher Socrates, who employed this method in his teaching.
In the Socratic method, instead of providing direct answers to questions, a person engages in a dialogue to explore and clarify their own (or others) thoughts and beliefs. This process involves asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and uncover underlying assumptions or contradictions.
When applied to the self, the Socratic method becomes a means of self-inquiry and reflection.
Process
In the tradition of the Socratic method, the below is a series of questions to consider when checking in with yourself as you progress:
Review each question one at a time. Are you being honest with yourself? Do you truly know your position and progress?
The Self Review Worksheet in The Workbook can be used to help document your thoughts, answers and plans for moving forward.
Based on your review, thoughts, answers and plans for moving forward:
Do you need to adjust your Models & Theories to course correct or move forward?
Do you have further Lessons to learn to adapt your approach?
Are there Tactics that could assist you to better handle specific scenarios?
Whatever the answers are you discover about yourself, whether positive or negative, it doesn't really matter. What matters is what you do next.
Continually learn, continually improve and move forward.
Self Review
1. In What Ways Am I Cultivating a Positive and Enthusiastic Presence?
Reflect on your overall presence. Do you bring positivity and enthusiasm to your interactions? A positive demeanor can make you more appealing and draw people toward you.
2. Am I Proactively Sharing Valuable Resources and Information?
Evaluate your willingness to share valuable resources and information with others. Are you seen as a source of valuable insights, tips, or content that attracts individuals seeking knowledge?
3. How Do I Convey Approachability in Social Settings?
Consider your approachability in social settings. Do you convey openness and approachability that makes others feel comfortable initiating connections with you?
4. In What Ways Am I Demonstrating Genuine Interest in Others?
Reflect on your interactions with others. Are you genuinely interested in their stories, experiences, and perspectives? Authentic interest fosters meaningful connections.
5. What Aspects of My Personality and Passions Shine Through?
Assess how you let your personality and passions shine through in your interactions. Sharing your authentic self can attract those with similar interests and values.
6. How Do I Demonstrate Reliability and Consistency in My Actions?
Consider how reliable and consistent you are in your actions. Reliability builds trust, making others more inclined to connect with you professionally and personally.
7. Am I Creating Opportunities for Meaningful Collaboration?
Evaluate your approach to collaboration. Are you creating opportunities for meaningful collaboration that attract individuals interested in working with someone with your skills and mindset?
8. What Steps Am I Taking to Showcase Acts of Kindness and Support?
Reflect on your actions that demonstrate kindness and support. Acts of kindness can leave a lasting positive impression, attracting individuals who appreciate such qualities.
9. Who are the Core Members of My Network?
Identify the individuals who form the core of your network. Consider the depth and strength of these connections in both your personal and professional life.
10. Am I Diversifying My Network Adequately?
Assess the diversity within your network. Are you connected with people from various industries, backgrounds, and perspectives? A diverse network can offer a broader range of opportunities and insights.
11. Which Relationships Require More Attention?
Evaluate the quality of your relationships. Are there connections that need more attention and nurturing? Consider the reciprocity and mutual benefit within each relationship.
12. In What Ways Can I Contribute to My Network?
Reflect on your role within your network. How can you contribute positively to the lives and careers of those around you? Consider your unique skills, experiences, and resources.
13. Are There Weak Ties I Could Strengthen?
Think about your weak ties and whether there are opportunities to strengthen those connections. Weak ties often provide access to new information and opportunities.
14. Am I Effectively Leveraging Online Platforms?
Assess your presence on professional networking platforms and social media. Are you leveraging these tools to expand your network and stay connected with industry trends and opportunities?
15. What Networking Events and Opportunities Have I Explored?
Review the networking events and opportunities you've participated in. Have you attended industry conferences, seminars, or local meet-ups to expand your connections?
16. How Am I Handling Introductions and Referrals?
Reflect on your approach to introductions and referrals. Are you proactive in seeking and providing introductions within your network? This can be a powerful way to create value.
17. Is My Network Aligned with My Current Goals?
Ensure that your network aligns with your current personal and professional goals. Evaluate whether your connections are supporting your aspirations and if adjustments are needed.
By posing these self-reflective questions you can deepen your awareness of your current position. In turn, enhancing the clarity and most important steps of your strategic approach moving forward.
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